My name is Ewa Swiech – I am a Certified Divorce Coach® and your companion in difficult changes
I know what it’s like to live in a relationship where every conversation can cause an explosion, and every day begins with tension and ends with silence.
I’ve been in a place where decisions were made to avoid punishment, not out of the need of the heart. I’m raising a child with a person who doesn’t respect any arrangements – and yet I’ve built a peaceful life, a home, my own business and the inner strength I once lacked.
Today I support people like you – who feel that something is over, but don’t yet know how to get out of it. I help those who are afraid of how divorce will affect children, don’t know if they can cope after the breakup, and are exhausted from trying to communicate with their partner.
I support you on three key levels
- Children and their emotions
I know that a breakup is not just an issue between you and your partner – it’s also your child’s world that is about to burst. I help you take care of their emotions and safety when everything changes. We create a clear, calm co-parenting plan that doesn’t embroil your child in adult conflict. I help you find the words with which to tell them what’s going on, without inducing fear or guilt. I support you in being a parent who feels stronger himself – because then it’s easier to take care of others. - The future after a breakup
I help you look at the future from a place where now it’s hard to believe it even exists. Together we build a plan: step by step – what’s next for housing, finances, work, daily life? How to live without a partner who may have spent years controlling your every move? I teach how to break things down into real steps so you don’t drown in fear and chaos. I don’t promise it will be easy – but it will be possible. And it makes a huge difference. - Relationship with your partner and communication
If you are afraid of conversations because each one ends in a brawl, silence or manipulation – you are in the right place. We work on how to speak to protect yourself – without provoking escalation, but also without giving up your voice. I help you set boundaries that you no longer need to bend. As a result, you regain the power in the relationship that was previously taking it away from you.
What results can you expect from working with me?
- More peace and clarity
Instead of daily overload, you get space to understand yourself and your situation. You start making decisions not out of fear – but out of a sense of what really serves you. - Effectively protecting children from conflict
We create a co-parenting strategy that is not based on revenge or war – but on what realistically supports your child. You learn how to talk to your child and partner so that you don’t transfer tensions to your youngest. - An action plan that works
You are not left with a list of general advice. We create a specific plan: from paperwork and logistics, to emotional and mental steps. This makes each day a little less overwhelming. - Reclaiming influence over your life
Whether you’re in the middle of a divorce or just maturing into a decision – you regain the voice that no one has listened to for a long time. You learn to trust yourself, act in harmony with yourself and stop being afraid.
